Remember, It’s Your Child’s Destiny…Not Yours.

Remember, It’s Your Child’s Destiny…Not Yours.

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In order for us to be parents we have to be strong. We don’t know what the ultimate destiny is for our children, it’s not our choice or our soul contracts – it’s theirs. They could have made a bad decision that will change their life forever or maybe they were just in the wrong place at the wrong time. The only thing we truly know is how and when they come into this world, the rest is ultimately up to them and Creator. No matter how painful it may be, it’s not up to us to know their destiny or create it for them.

Sometimes, nothing makes sense. Sometimes you will never have an answer. But, what you know deep in your heart as a parent is that you gave them the most love you could and you did all you could ever do the best way you knew how.

Sending love and light to comfort parents in your challenging times. Your children are your heart and soul, when they ache you ache. But, we are only on this earth for a very short time. Make the best you can out of it. Find ways to inJOY the littlest details and cherish every moment. For as they say it is worse to have a fear of death than to have a fear of life.

You did your part, you brought them here. Remember, this isn’t our home, we are just here temporarily and ultimately it’s your child’s life lessons and contracts that they must fulfill. And, when the day comes and you must part your ways, you will meet again with the same love you have always had for each other.

Dedicating this thought to a very special healer and lightworker, who lost her daughter to a drunk driver and to many other parents out there who are struggling right now to get through what may seem like the hardest, darkest and most challenging time of your life regarding your children. I have heard so many stories in the last few days that my hearts go out to all of you.


Our children our an extension of our hearts on the outside of our bodies.  You can’ t undo or change the past, all you can do is move forward from it. We are our worst critics – we are harder on our selves than anyone. We shame ourselves because we may not feel we’ve done a good job or we are failures at parenting.  We feel sorry for ourselves and situations and we go into  protective mode. Our cellular memory is like a catalyst, frozen in time, closing you down so you never get hurt again. Heal your heart with the Chakra Magic Series Heart Meditation so you can move forward and be free. Do it for yourselves, do it for your children.

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